In it, writer and teacher Kathie Marshall describes her experience returning to a remedial classroom after being a literacy coach for eight years. She describes how her middle grade students think of themselves as failures, only good at things like graffitti and acting up. She tells how bored and frustrated these kids are by the scripted "No Child Left Behind" teaching methods now used to "help" struggling learners.
She cites a new book, Wounded by School by Kirsten Olson, that brought back memories of her own humiliations as a student. She looked around at her students and recognized in them Olson's descriptions of how schools can hurt. And not just at-risk students.
Wounded by School delineates a dozen different types of school wounding and their effects, including:
• Feeling you aren’t smart and your ideas lack value.
• Feeling you don’t have what it takes to be successful in school.
• Feeling ashamed of your efforts.
• Suffering a loss of ambition, self-discipline, and persistence when faced with obstacles.In a section called “wounds of rebellion,” I found my intervention kids and their defensive symptoms:
• The only way to protect yourself is to rebel.
• In response to being unsuccessful or told we are unworthy, we become hostile.
• We are unwilling to see another point of view.
• We act out, as an adaptive response and it becomes fixed, maladaptive, and self-destructive.
Life, even for kids, can offer hard lessons. Teachers, like parents, are far from perfect, certainly not immune to the stress of difficult life experiences and overcrowded classrooms.
So, discounting the normal slings and arrows of living, has your child ever had an episode that has caused him or her to freeze up intellectually? Not by a stupid thing some teacher said once, not by one unfair grade or unearned punishment, but by more insidious circumstances, like boredom, social exclusion, conformity, or lack of respect for a different learning style.
Are Montclair schools wounding or healing? If some kids thrive here, and some don't, why?